tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726057257111697795.post1020251740242989309..comments2010-02-24T09:41:49.465+02:00Comments on Memories of Life: The Road of InfertilityKarin Needham-Britzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05938394373704797325noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-726057257111697795.post-39696635255157817182010-02-07T10:37:23.007+02:002010-02-07T10:37:23.007+02:00Karin, my heart breaks for you! Anyone that tells ...Karin, my heart breaks for you! Anyone that tells you bad things happen to make you stronger in response to hearing about the loss of your twins, please tell them to shut the f**** up! There can be no useful reason why you had to go through that, there can be no useful reason why two babies lost their lives to make you stronger? I say no ways! Sometimes in life the cruelest things happen and they have no rhyme or reason!<br />As for you anger, it is a good sign! Its good to get angry, its a sign that you are processing what happened, that you are grieving and that slowly but surely you are healing.<br />Anger is the second stage in the 5 stages of grief. <br />The first is denial, the second anger, the third is bargaining, the fourth is depression and the fifth and final stage is acceptance!<br />I'm so glad that you are seeking professional help as they will be able to guide you through the confusing stages of your grief.<br />If you feel you are not emotionally read to start trying again, then don't! Do what is best for you right now.<br />(((hugs)))The Blessed Barrennesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00705483551013268275noreply@blogger.com